How to keep your partner in suspense during a private dance

Understanding the Art of Private Dance

How interesting is marriage life, especially when you have the chance to live with your partner and experience a deeper level of bonding? Just Hilary, mother to a lovely kid, Ravenna, checking in from Melbourne, Australia. One of the vital activities that have spiced up my relationship is dancing with my partner privately. Private dance? Yes, maybe you're thinking, "Hilary you've lost your marbles!" But bear with me, it's not what you might be imagining. Come on, it's all clean and fun! There are no stripper poles in my living room, promise.

Let me give you some context. Picture this: You've had a tough day at work, you've dealt with screaming kids (yes, the angelic Ravenna has her moments too), and you and your partner are finally at the end of your day. Boring, right? Add a private dance into the mix and watch the sparks fly. Now we’re talking, right? However, if not done correctly, a private dance could quickly turn into a moment of embarrassment.

Getting Started: Rhythm and Comfort

Is every beat of the rhythm sinking you deeper into an obsession of seeing your partner's reactions in your private dance? Getting the best out of a private dance revolves around understanding the rhythm and being comfortable in your moves. It doesn't matter whether you have the dancing skills of a pro or just simple sways and nods. What matters is that it comes from you; it oozes out your unmatched energy, and it entraps your partner in a world of suspense.

Dance is just like a conversation between two bodies responding to rhythm; thus, it shouldn’t feel forced. It should be natural, kind of like how you two interact in your daily lives. Swap out your day-to-day frustrations with the rhythm of dance. It's a guaranteed way of reigniting the spark and relieving stress. Remember, laughter compounds the connection between two people, so feel free to laugh at your missteps and unusual moves. This brings an enjoyable atmosphere to your private dance, making it memorable.

Selecting the Right Music

Music is the gravy that adds flavour to the sweet potato that is a private dance. Selecting the right music creates an ambiance that puts you into the required mood. Don’t rely on my taste, or your friend’s, but delve into your partner’s preferences. Is there a certain tune that makes their eyes sparkle when they hear? Or a certain beat they can't resist shaking a leg to? Is it Ella Fitzgerald’s “Summertime,” or a Maroon 5 hit, or maybe some groovy numbers from Tame Impala? Whatever the preference, get it right, get it spicy!

Remember, the music should be slow, allowing you to create suspense. This isn't a high school prom you're trying to re-enact. You want to keep your partner entranced, waiting to see what move comes next. The rhythm should be slow enough to let you express yourself. After all, this aspect of the dance is sort of like unveiling an intimate secret – one that only the two of you know about.

Get the Right Attire

I’m sure many ladies out there, myself included, have at least one outfit in their closet that makes them feel desirable - now is the time to bring it out. However, the goal here isn’t to seduce your partner with skimpy garments, but rather to make you feel comfortable and confident while moving to the rhythm.

Comfortable clothing can boost your flexibility during the dance and improve your overall performance. Confidence, on the other hand, will make your dance radiate irresistibility, pulling your partner deeper into the suspense. It's wonderful how a simple change of clothes can turn an ordinary dance into an extraordinary moment.

Eyes Contact and Expression

Let the eyes do the talking! Dancing isn't just about body movement; other facial expressions are equally significant. Your eyes, believe it or not, can dance too. A sultry gaze, a coy flutter of the lashes, a firm, intense stare - these all create a language of their own, a language only spoken and understood in the privacy of your dance.

If words fail to express your true emotions, let your expressions convey them. Adding some suspense to your dance may mean maintaining eye contact at certain moments and shyly looking away at others. It seems easy, doesn't it? It is! Just think of it as flirting, but with a rhythmic twist. Making it more about expression rather than perfect execution results in a more natural and enjoyable dance.

Take it Slow and Keep Surprises Coming

The ultimate ingredient in a suspense-filled private dance is pacing. Your dance should be slow, deliberate, unpredictable, and surprising to your partner. You don't need a script or choreography; all you need is to follow the beats of your heart and listen to the rhythm of the music.

The best part of dancing is not knowing what comes next. Unpredictability is the secret sauce that keeps your partner glued to your dance. Be spontaneous - switch up your moves, oscillate between fast and slow, sultry and fun. The game is suspense, my darling, and trust me, your partner will be left wanting more, eagerly anticipating the next private dance.

In conclusion, dancing with your partner privately is a bonding activity that can provide endless fun and deep connection between you two. It’s something I have come to cherish in my relationship, and if you give it a go, I'm sure you will too. Let loose, enjoy the rhythm, make eye contact, wear what makes you confident, and keep surprises coming. Remember, it’s not about perfection, it’s about connection. Send me your stories and fun experiences with private dances - I would love to hear them!